I’m looking for the right method.
The law of attraction is not a “method”. It is a principle that occurs all the time. You can’t escape it because its happening 24 hours a day, non-stop.
By the law of attraction, the attitude you radiate comes back to you. If you do not address your overall attitude and inner beliefs it doesn’t really matter what method you use. None of them will work. If, on the other hand, you are aligned you are your true self. Almost any method will work.
Source:
Reality Creation and Manifestation – Frederick Dodson
This one is pretty self-explanatory. Your attitude is everything. If you believe it is possible, then it is. That doesn’t mean there won’t be work involved, but it is possible.
One thing to caution about here is if you are living in anger and resentment and you set a goal of becoming a “Buddha”… well, that might take a lot of work. There are interim steps required, and setting a goal that far ahead is an excellent way to end up discouraged. Try baby steps to start with. Build slowly, and your confidence and ability will grow. Reaching for too much too fast isn’t healthy mentally, although it is a great aspiration. Be reasonable in your desires and expectations.